NEEDLE & THREAD: Artisans of Clothing

Pandemic Effects: Episode #2

I doubt anything has fascinated me about Mexico as much as the colors, diversity, and creativity of the indigenous clothing.  Before we settled here I decided to make a project of shopping for pieces I could wear on a fairly frequent basis.  I’d love it if I had black hair (I’m a little too blonde!) and could dress like my hero Frida Kahlo, who worn “native dress” to show her support of the indigenous people of Mexico. The love of Mexican clothing has led me to the love of learning about the numerous variations in style and pattern and the women who create them.

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The indigenous women of Mexico have historically spent hours, days, months, processing primarily cotton, wool, and silk, weaving it into clothing of many different styles and adorning it with embroidery, designs based on the region they live in.  Somewhere along the way I read that the dress of each region was “encouraged” by the Spaniards during the Conquest in the 1500’s, as a way to identify each indigenous group, but I haven’t been able to find my source on that.  From region to region styles have been affected by weather, religion, European influences, techniques, and availability of equipment and supplies, ie., looms, fibers such as cotton, bark, and agave, dyeing materials such as indigo, flowers, and insects, etc.  Over time the work that was a necessity for daily clothing became a necessity for subsistence. Very few women wear  village costumes these days, except for special occasions.  Their time is spent creating items for sale instead of for daily wear.  The diversity and beauty of the work is now sought after by tourists, businesses, and collectors.

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The Mexican states best known for their clothing are Michoacán, Oaxaca, and Chiapas.  Michoacán has many indigenous groups – Purépecha, Mazahua, and Otomi among them.  Backstrap looms are used for making wool and cotton rebozos (shawls).  Cross-stitch embroidery (usually yellow) on checkered aprons is typical of the Purépecha.  Storytelling embroidery does just that on blouses, shawls, pillows, etc.  And deshilado (pulled thread) embroidery can be as basic or elegant as you’d like.

In Oaxaca the women of the Isthmus of Tehuantepec are noted for their densely embroidered flowered tops and skirts made famous by Frida Kahlo. 0A0927F5-33B4-4A2B-9BBE-19EFF93FC2C9The typical “wedding dress” (or top) made familiar by the hippies of the 70’s is usually white fabric with elaborate embroidery on the yoke, sleeves, and front.  There are cheap versions but authentic versions take weeks to months to create.  Mandiles (aprons) are created in smock, half apron, and pinafore styles, generally made from acrylic fabrics with machine embroidery that may be simple or very elaborate.  On the coast a Mixtec master weaver may take 300 hours to make a traditional skirt, 200 hours for a huipil.  The Museo Textile De Oaxaca created educational programs for weavers that have blossomed into high end expositions, providing much needed income.

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Those who’ve been to Chiapas (I haven’t made it yet!) will tell you that the range of textiles and clothing is astounding.  Cooperatives there, as in other states, have been developed to allow the artisans more profit for their hard work, with set prices and the opportunity to be more visible to buyers.  Mothers are encouraged to teach their craft to their daughters so that there is continuity of the traditions of Maya textiles.  Small villages in Chiapas have outdoor market days, some representing more than one community.  Typical findings are long-haired wrap skirts, satin blouses, and chales, or capes, hand or machine stitched.  Dense embroidery of flowers is typical of Zinacantán women, with patterns hand drawn then meticulously stitched by machine numerous times.   In 2015 there were over 1 million weavers and embroiderers in Chiapas, and 2000 sewing machines (MAYA THREADS: A Woven History of Chiapas by Walter F. Morris, Jr.) (Photo below found online.)

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So, these too are the artisans I worry about.  With COVID-19 limiting travel, markets and fairs, and other methods of sales, and so many artisans unable to sell online due to lack of knowledge or access to computers, I wonder how many of these women will be able to endure this blow.  Their designs are unique, sacred, personal, and often highly symbolic. For many ONE sale can make a difference in whether their family eats that week, that month.  I’m not sure how to help the indigenous women of Mexico other than to stay well and hope that I can travel to meet and buy from them in the near future.  After all, we’re all in this together!

(There is so much information about the clothing and the people who create them.  I could go on much longer.  But I’ll stop now and leave you with a list of websites and books of interest.  You can also write to me in the comment section if you have questions.  If I don’t know, I’ll find out.) 

TEXTILE FIESTAS OF MEXICO: A Traveler’s Guide to Celebrations, Markets, and Smart Shopping by Sheri Brautigam/2016

OAXACA STORIES IN CLOTH: A Book about People, Belonging, Identity, and Adornment by Eric Sebastian Mindling/2016

Interesting websites: Historyplex: Tradition of Mexican Clothes and Costumes: A Beautiful Riot of Color; The Classroom: History of Mexican Clothing; Everyculture.com. – Mexico; https://relativitytextiles.com/mexican-textiles/

In-depth studies:

https://ethnycorner.com/en/2019/08/24/quelle-est-lorigine-des-fleurs-mexicaines-sur-les-vetements-mexicains/

https://www.getty.edu/conservation/publications_resources/pdf_publications/pdf/unbroken_thread_eng_vl.pdf

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RUG WEAVERS OF OAXACA

Pandemic Effects: Episode 1

Pondering the effects of the current pandemic brings to mind all those Mexican people I have met, heard, or read about since I’ve been here who are caught in the grips of such mind-boggling change while trying to carry on their normal day to day routines.  I fear for their lives, for their health, and for their subsistence.  Let me tell you about the rug weavers of Oaxaca.

Forty minutes south of Oaxaca City, nestled in the hills, is the Zapotec village of Teotitlán Del Valle, “Land of the Gods”.  Legend has it that the villagers never used rugs, that their weaving was originally for cloth and clothing and that after a villager visited Texas and saw thick wool weavings on the floors, everything changed. Still other sources say that the change was driven by gringo dealers coming south to find a cheaper source for “Navajo-style” rugs.  What we know for sure is that in the mid-twentieth century the farming village of Teotitlán became a tourist town with generations of self-governing villagers working together, proudly and patiently producing their quality rugs.

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Weaving started in Mexico with backstrap looms, but with the Spanish conquest of 1521 came the pedal loom, along with Churro sheep for wool and mineral salts and oxides for toning and fixing dyes.  Men became the primary weavers, often standing for hours at a time.  Nearly everyone in the village became involved in some way.

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Raw wool, imported or local, is used for weaving the famous rugs. Women generally clean and card the raw wool, then spin it into yarn.  Years ago synthetic dyes took over the trade, decreasing the price and easing the whole process.  But eventually local weavers realized the synthetic dyes were often toxic and not as desirable for consumers.  Gradually many began switching back to natural dyes as a way to stand out in their trade.  Some do their own dyeing.  Others obtain the dyed yarn from the workshops they weave for.

The Chavez Santiago family of Fe y Lola Rugs, one of the most famous weaving families in Teotitlán, shares their land with my friend Norma Schafer.  While visiting her last July I was lucky to see their clothesline covered with miles of strands of gorgeous freshly dyed yarn hanging in the sun to dry.  We also visited the workshop of Francisco Martínez Ruiz and his wife Maria Del Lourdes (above) where they gave us a beautiful demonstration of their entire process, a process that takes many hours to complete.  I learned quickly that carding and spinning are not as easy as they look.

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The rug dyes of Mexico are famous, with many stories to tell.  Probably most famous are the reds of the cochineal insect and the blues of the indigo plant from the Isthmus of Tehuantepec.  There is a wonderful book called A PERFECT RED by Amy Butler Greenfield that tracks the history of red dyes, concentrating on the use of the cochineal insect that feeds on the liquid of the nopal, or paddle, cactus.  Dried and crushed they produce an amazing deep red color.  The indigo plant produces a deep denim blue.  Other dyes come from tree bark, nuts, mosses, leaves, and flowers (such as marigolds), and a complex system of mixing and/or over-dyeing renders a variety of deep, soft colors.  (I also referenced MEXICAN TEXTILES: Spirit and Style by Mask Takahashi and TEXTILE FIESTAS OF MEXICO by Sheri Brautigam, which includes a chapter on Teotitlán Del Valle by my friend Norma.)

 

The patterns of Oaxacan rugs cover a wide variety of symbols, some ancient, some modern.  Rug patterns are taken from paintings, Navajo symbols, geometric shapes, and ancient symbols of Mexico.  The Greek key, mountains, snails, feathers, and candles appear, as well as symbols of the ancient Aztecs.  As younger weavers who chose to stay involved in the family business step in, more modern symbols and custom designs appear as well.  Learn more about the history, patterns, and process of rug weaving in Oaxaca from Norma Schafer’s blog Oaxaca Cultural Navigator.

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I had heard about Oaxacan rugs for years so when we visited San Miguel De Allende in 2016 I knew I had to go shopping.  Our trip to the weekly organic market, geared toward the local gringo population, turned up an authentic Oaxacan rug weaver and his teenage daughter.  So many gorgeous rugs to choose from!  I picked a runner for our hallway back home and asked them to ship it.  No problema.  I couldn’t imagine how long it would take to get to North Carolina or what shape it would be in.  “Don’t worry,” another gringa told me.  “It’ll arrive packaged like you won’t believe and it won’t take that long.”  Two weeks later a package the size of a small shoebox arrived, surrounded by rows of duct tape.  There was my rug in perfect condition.

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Taking my cues from Norma, I was struck by a beautiful 8′ x 10′ rug on the floor of the rental house we looked at before moving down.  Not for sale, sorry.  A month later I received a message from the previous renter: Our hearts are broken but we cannot use the rug in our small house.  Would you like to buy it?  The answer is below.  My treasure.  All natural dyes.  From the famous Porfirio Gutierrez workshop in Teotitlán.

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So it is these people that I worry about.  Tourist trade has decreased dramatically with the pandemic.  I have no idea how online or gallery sales might be going.  The rug trade sustains the village of Teotitlán Del Valle.  My experience with the people there is that they know how to take care of each other, how to survive.  They are resourceful and dedicated so I hope they will figure it out.  Many are resistant to the mandates of masks and social distancing.  It is not their way.  Whatever will be, will be.  Blessings to all the hardworking people of Teotitlán.  Here’s to better times ahead.

 

THERE’S AN OIL FOR THAT

Not much of a pandemic related title…or is it?  Through these weeks of social distancing my partner & I have stuck close to home.  No cheating.  Always mask & gloves when we go out for food & cash (an essential item in Mexico).  Being home so much gives you lots of time to think.  Which isn’t always a good thing.

Depression, melancholy, fear, agitation, loneliness….so many emotions arise.  After too many nights with a nightcap & too many days of tears, lethargy, sadness, I realized I had to do something or I was going to sink into my bed or our couch & refuse to move.  So I got up, showered earlier than usual these days, dressed, & sat down at my computer to make a list of projects I could tackle, because I finally have the time.  (And for me, structure is a good thing.)  One of them was to renew my study of essential oils.  It’s been 4 years since I certified through the online AROMAHEAD INSTITUTE.  What better place to zero in on than the emotions this lockdown has raised in me.  And in many others.

What I love about oils is how you can customize a blend for the combination of emotions you’re feeling.  And your blend might be completely different from the blend I would use.  I don’t want to get bogged down here…there’s sooo much information out there.  But I’ll say this: Essential oils are strong chemicals, not to be taken lightly.  They are subtle but powerful & they must be used with caution.  The #1 rule with all oils is – Dilute! Dilute! Dilute!   Please note, also, that I do not advocate ingestion of oils without a very high level of education.  Now, let’s talk.

Essential oils are the concentrated “essence” of herbs, seeds, grasses, trees, flowers, fruits, etc.  The chemical composition of each oil is different & there is the potential to interact negatively with specific medications & diseases.  Also, sensitive skin can react adversely, especially if an oil (a citrus oil, for example) has oxidized because of frequent exposure to air & sunlight.  In short, don’t use an oil without studying it first.  aromaweb.com is a good source.  And I recently found an excellent discussion of quality & storage of oils on ESSENTIALOILHAVEN.com.

Here are two of my favorite go-to books (I have many!) for using oils with emotional issues, both well known authors in aromatherapy:

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Yesterday I knew I needed oils to help get me through so I grabbed these books & started reading.  Situational depression in the midst of such serious global issues, causing the delay of my trip to visit my granddaughter in North Carolina, guided my choices.

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Gabriel Mojay teaches oils from a Chinese medicine perspective, breaking emotional issues like depression into different categories depending on cause & symptoms.  This time I picked oils based on “fear of an external or known cause” – Thyme linalool – & depression that causes a loss of “ability to motivate, seek, and aspire”.  Yep, that said it.  His suggested oils for that are Bergamot & Mandarin.  All I did was place one drop of each on a small felted wool ball someone gave me & breathe in (deeply) the aroma several times in the afternoon/evening.  The clue that you’ve taken in too much is simply beginning to feel a headache or nausea.  If you experience these symptoms, just back off. I must tell you that I feel much more clear, focused, & calm today.

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My other book led me to a very different list of oils, to be used in three phases as needed. Worwood suggests specific blends totalling 30 drops to be combined with massage oil, placed in a diffuser, or dropped on a cotton ball for simple inhalation.  You can breathe directly from the bottle but I prefer not to open my bottles any more than I have to to protect their integrity.  She suggests Grapefruit, Rosemary, Eucalyptus citriodora (there are several Eucalyptus species), Cypress, Helichrysum, & Clary sage, to be used in different combinations for light, moderate, or deep depression.

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I’ve also found myself having mild panic attacks sometimes at night when the lights are finally out & my mind starts cataloguing all the craziness we’re living through right now. Lavender is the #1 first aid oil for that & in this case it’s OK to use it straight, or “neat” as we call it.  So I keep a bottle by my bed now.   All I have to do is open the bottle once & take a couple of deep breaths to calm my “fight or flight” response, or place 1 drop on my inner wrists or my upper chest.  For more serious cases of panic attacks the oils you see in the picture above can be combined in specific proportions to apply in a massage oil or to inhale from the bottle or a cotton ball.  

You probably noticed that I have several brands of oils.  I’ve experimented over the years & these are the brands I’ve stuck with.  Here in Mexico it’s difficult to find oils & shipping costs from the US are outrageous.  That means that any time we’re in the US or someone’s coming to visit us (when will that be???) oils are on my list of must-haves.  

Well, that’s it for today.  I’m happy to discuss any of these suggestions in more detail.  Just send me a message in the comment section.  Don’t self-diagnose depression.  You know how you feel.  Remember my safety comments above.  Don’t forget essential oils when you’re looking for a little help.  Most of all, be safe!

 

 

WAITING IN MEXICO

This is Holy Week in Mexico.  The Passion Play, church services, parades, and gatherings have all been canceled.  It is inordinately quiet here today.  No workmen building.  No handymen or gardeners working.  Hardly any traffic.  The Mexican people are resilient.  I’m sure they’re finding ways to celebrate.  (Photos from 2019)

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Like many of you, I find myself waiting.  Waiting to see how this life-changing pandemic hits Mexico.  We are in lockdown, with more businesses closing every day.  We go out weekly for food and/or medicine.  We have vegetables, fruits, and staples delivered.  We are the lucky ones.  I worry about the Mexican people who survive on so little, knowing that that will most likely be taken away now as well.  There are few reported cases of COVID-19 here in the Chapala area, probably very little testing going on.  And reports of local, well-revered doctors not using PPE.  The Mexican culture takes a “que será será” – what will be, will be – attitude we’re told.  Take life as it comes.  What will be left after the “tsunami” hits?  Will we lose some of our Mexican friends?  Who will go without food?  What businesses will be gone?  Restaurants?  How will indigenous artisans survive?  How will this country recover?  We wait and wonder.

There are efforts, known and unknown, going on around the Lake to help those in need.  Friends recently started a FoodBank for Ajijic and neighboring villages.  Restaurants have switched to take out and delivery and patrons are urging others to support them.  We are blessed, in our house stocked with food, and a pool to lounge in.  We have so much.  We look out for our Mexican neighbors nearby.  And our handyman with four children and no steady job.  It is time to step up to the plate.  It is time to be COMMUNITY.

So I leave you with photographs of people and places I’ve encountered in the past two years of living in and visiting a small portion of Mexico.  I experienced the people and places you see primarily in Ajijic, Tapalpa, Pátzcuaro, and the state of Oaxaca.  Reviewing the images makes me realize (again) just how rich Mexico is in color, culture, and history.  I know a lot of these folks and count them as friends.  The businesses are ones that I frequent or acknowledge as part of our community.  I am concerned for them all.  Please hold them in your hearts as we endure these next few months together.

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REPORTS FROM THE FIELD

I’m lucky.  Blessed, really.  I have this wonderful house with a view (thanks to my partner), space to meditate and do yoga, a good computer, music, books…but sometimes I just need to “space out”, fall apart.   There is so much sadness in the world right now.  Yes, I see the blessings – like neighbor helping neighbor, employers helping employees, etc. – but sometimes none of that seems like enough to get us through.  Part of my strategy is to contact friends who are out there, in “the field”, experiencing the joy and pain of March, 2020.  I thank them for sharing and allowing me to pass their words along.

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WA-Elizabeth

Hey there Chris. It’s so good to hear from you. We are doing OK. Being in Western Washington, we have been a little Ahead of the curve. Schools have been out for two weeks here already, through the end of April, but no one thinks schools will resume for the rest of the academic year. We are waiting for the announcement on that. We’ve been doing social distancing for several weeks and it seems like people are following the directions as far as I can tell to help flatten the curve. Washington’s governor has been a strong leader, mainly due to the severity of the outbreak in Seattle and that being the first place things really hit in the United States. We have one local hospital. The hospital administration says they have plenty of everything that is needed to handle a surge; One emergency room physician in particular and a lot of more anonymous healthcare workers have said the hospital is woefully unprepared under supplied and not handling testing in a way to limit the spread of disease. Who would you believe? In the past couple of days we’ve had one nursing home overrun with infections and several others reporting their first few cases. So things are getting a little rough here. Jack and I are spending our days working on his school homework and taking long walks and keeping up communication with close family and friends. Thanks for reaching out.

NJ/MD-Kay (Retired/Grandmother extraordinaire)

Life here in NJ is at a standstill.  Cases are multiplying by the day!  People are counted and limited to 30 allowed in the grocery store at a time.  I wish I could say everyone is practicing isolation but they aren’t. I think this is going to be a long and deadly period in America’s history.  We sanitize, wash our hands, make our own hand sanitizer (there is not a bottle of it to be purchased in the tristate area), wash our clothes immediately after being out, and basically try not to leave the house for anything but food.  My daughter works for US Foods.  She is working from home.  She was lucky.  She is in management and was not furloughed.  Her particular group of employees had their hours cut.  Food orders have decreased but hospitals and take out restaurants and grocery stores still need deliveries.  Her company has been great in trying to do all that they can to help employees.  They are giving them food that they have overstocks of. They are pretty large handouts and so my daughter has been sharing with neighbors. One neighbor has a family member connected with the produce industry.  She has been sharing on a daily basis the excess that comes from there. People are helping each other.

Stay safe and keep the faith that we will all get through this.

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Roanoke, VA – Erin (French teacher/musician)

Restaurants closed except for carry out. Grocery stores, co op, etc have shortened hours. Schools closed of course (and have gone to online instruction). Recently Roanoke city schools announced that students won’t go back at all this school year. People are still allowed to go out, drive, exercise, etc but not in groups over 10 and advised to keep 6 feet of distance.

 

Mountains of NC – Shelton (Hospice nurse/Master gardener)

Nature is doing her usual Spring thing, bestowing flowers, bird songs, fresh breezes, and rain, while all else is changed due to the virus.  There is the staying home part, which I enjoy.  Perfect excuse to stay home and dig, while enjoying all of the Earth’s blessings. Most of Boone is shut down anyway.  No restaurants, except take- out, no school for K-12, no App State, 75% of businesses closed, no tourists, no usual shopping, except a run to the grocery store, with hand sanitizer always, and social distancing of course.  And my work schedule is decreased, because how much can a Hospice nurse do remotely?  And then there is Zoom- the new to me way to connect with my church and work communities.  Oh, and don’t forget the fear!  Am I going to get sick?  What do the next few months hold?  Will there be enough food?- forget toilet paper, it’s been gone.  What do you do but live one day at a time right now, holding each day in gratitude for its preciousness.

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Pátzcuaro, MX – Victoria (Innkeeper/artist)

Here is a message I just sent someone.  It is longwinded but here goes.  The person was talking about social distancing.  I don’t mean to pontificate, but I think most Gringos do not realize exactly what it means to live from morning to night financially.  Not paycheck to paycheck which is bad enough.  This virus is exposing a class difference.  We Gringos are all watching the news and wondering about ventilators and such while there are many many Mexicans who do not actually have the luxury of staying home at all.  I have to pay my staff and I am happy to.  Mexican federal labor law requires it for ALL employers to continue to pay, though I am aware that most Gringos are not requiring that the employee come to work for the protection of both parties.  I’m not positive but I believe that might be why AMLO has made the horrible mistake of lying to the people. When it hits here people are going to die.  There is no infrastructure to deal with this kind of event.  I’m in self quarantine as is Tom bc of our recent trip.  I am also prepared to die if that is my destiny.  I always knew that medical care in Mexico was not 1st World and have been ok with that.  Since I have almost no SS I am hoping tourism will return in less than a year or I am screwed.  Meanwhile, it is important to live in the moment and maintain as positive attitude as possible.  Such amazing times.  We are being given a gift..though what it is is yet to be revealed.  I for one am really appreciating each moment as it comes.  Plan for the worst and then let it go”.  Abrazos (hugs)

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I’ll reference two other friends before I go.  One is Tracy Councill, founder of “Tracy’s Kids”, an art therapy program for children with cancer at GUH Children’s Medical Center near DC.   Therapy is on hold for now, for the safety of all concerned.  But for an uplifting story check out the attached video about a 9 year old boy who decided to do a fundraising project for Tracy’s Kids since art supplies can no longer be shared due to COVID-19.  Amazing.  He’s 10 today.  Happy birthday Jonah!

And my friend Norma Schafer of Oaxaca Cultural Navigator who is “stuck” in CA with her son.  She spends a lot of her time communicating with her indigenous friends in Oaxaca (see the link below about her village Teotitlán del Valle) and other areas of Mexico, asking how people are dealing with the limitations of this virus.

I remember “The Days of Wine & Roses”, The Beach Boys, and drive-in movies.  Every generation has their sweet memories.  And their painful ones.  COVID-19 is the pandemic from hell.  Touching each other with kindness, reaching out, makes it all a little more bearable.  Stay well!

 

 

 

100 DROPS OF RAIN

It rarely rains here in January so when the huge intermittent drops started hitting the stone floor of the courtyard outside my bedroom window, I woke up.  2:30 AM. Ruminating.

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The Truth is…

This move has been dang hard.  We’ve been sick &/or exhausted a lot of the time. We’ve been to doctors more in 14 months than in the last few years.  Bronchitis, salmonella, flu?  Our immune systems took a major hit starting last fall when we had repairs & remodeling going on at the same time that the estate sales folks were prepping for our big sale.  It let up a little bit when we first got here.  Adrenaline kicked in.  We were excited, on a high.  I guess we pushed too hard for too long.  And tried to adjust to new food, new germs, new ways of doing almost everything.  Then the construction started in October.  One layer too much.

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The noise here is very difficult sometimes.  We’ve lost our view.  Construction is going on on 3 sides of us, one side right up against our bedroom wall.  A pick ax is a popular tool here.  You wonder what they’re chipping away at hour after hour.  The truth is that when you need to add electrical wires in a brick wall, you simply chip away a gulley to lay it in.  Loud music doesn’t bother us much anymore.  But roof dogs & hammers & buzz saws are over the top now.  We expected noise but now we understand how much we valued our quiet back in our old neighborhood.  Do people leave because of it?  I don’t know.  Maybe they just change locations.  We will do the same.

Gringos here still get caught up in fast pace life…Mexicans, thankfully, slow it down.  At a recent yoga workshop of about 20 gringos the teacher spoke of the relentless multitasking in our lives.  I couldn’t help but wonder why this was a topic.  Would a class of Mexicans hear the same speech?  Didn’t I move to Mexico to enjoy its slower pace?  That slower pace we know as “mañana”?  Where tomorrow means “whenever I can get there”.  Where people move slow enough to greet each other on the streets & celebrate with their families on a near monthly basis.

Integrate? Learn Spanish to integrate?  We are truly just guests here so it warrants the effort to speak the local language.  My original goal was to be able to interview elderly Mexican women & order food in restaurants.  That last goal came easily.  The first one has been a significant challenge with my poor memory & lots of distractions.  Letting it go would take the pressure off.  Until I needed to communicate.  Guess I’ll keep going. 

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I’ve changed…I’m more tolerant & less judgmental.  I try to understand that trash in the street is a reflection of at least 2 things:  different values & a flailing infrastructure.   I value my friends, old & new, more than ever.  I’m more apt to accept them for who they are & who they have been or hope to be.  For being human.  Like me.

I’m more willing to try new things, to stretch myself.  “Every day try something that scares you” quotes a magnet given by a friend.  Moving here was the biggest leap, of course.  Getting my Mexican driver’s license, my permanent visa, & taking road trips into unknown territory.  Taking a small boat into a harbor full of humpback whales was something I never dreamed of doing, having been raised in a fearful home, afraid of deep (or murky) water (among other things).  It was astounding to be on that silver-black bay with creatures from a world so much larger than my own.  Connected to Mother Earth.  Grateful.

IMG_6582Why do I stay?  Because it is still a grand adventure.  For the most part the local people are kind, friendly, & helpful.  It is easy to create a community of local friends with the abundance of interesting people here.  And I love Mexico, with all its quirks, & want to explore it further.  Once we get our feet on the ground.  Some folks seem to settle right in.  Or maybe they just don’t talk about the difficulties.  For us, retiring, closing down a business, leaving behind friends of many years, &, of course, family, coming to a new country where nearly everything is a learning curve & you barely, if at all, speak the language, ranks in those top 5 life events that can really send you tumbling.  But we’re determined.  We’ll find a way.

 

 

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The rain stopped.  Huge splattering drops we may never even notice in the morning.

 

MASTERS OF ARTS

Once a year, in November, the masters of Mexican crafts come to Chapala, Jalisco, Mexico, thanks to Los Amigos del Artes Popular (ladap.org). LADAP began in 1996 with weekend socials and visits to collectors home.

Membership has grown to over 350 people in the US and Mexico, with dues and guided tour fees going to support the Feria. LADAP “honors, celebrates, and promotes Mexican folk art”. Its main purpose is to support continuation of indigenous art which is slowly being lost to migration and industrialization. Artisans are not charged booth fees and are often awarded funds to help with transportation of themselves and their wares, as well as housing and social events with local residents. The Feria takes place over three days in a gorgeous spot called The Yacht Club, which of course is right beside Lake Chapala.

For a mere 80 pesos (about $4) you can walk into a maze of the best arts and crafts of Mexico and buy your heart’s desire from textiles to pottery to jewelry and more. From a beginning group of 13 artisans the Feria has now grown to over 80 participants representing a vast portion of Mexico. Some of them have never been outside their villages. Many speak no English and some are illiterate. Food, music, demonstrations, raffle prizes, and fashion shows (Mexican textiles and costumes) round out the annual event that began in 2002. The idea for the Feria originated with Marianne Carlson after she visited 17 indigenous villages around Lake Patzcuaro and knew the hard working artisans deserved a broader audience. This year’s attendance was reportedly the largest in the Feria’s history.

Walking through the crowded tents was like walking through a wonderland for me. I had visited some of the artisans in their studios or bought from them in markets. It felt good to receive their warm welcomes. I knew what I wanted to look for after reading numerous books on textiles and perusing websites, visiting and talking with collectors. But there was so much to see!

The handmade crafts of Mexico are amazing. Color, ingenuity, creativity, and symbolism abound. Detail is often astounding. The artisans are kind, proud, and dedicated.

I did not have deep pockets and I knew I had to be selective. Bargaining is not considered acceptable and prices are not as low as you would pay in the artisans homes and villages. But here you find the finest representative crafts from several Mexican states located in one area, and your purchases support the artisans and continuation of their amazing work. It’s a win-win!

Here in the Lake Chapala area we’re used to seeing the costumes and crafts of the Huichol tribe. They were well represented at the Feria.

Attending the Feria Maestros del Arte was a long awaited and worthwhile experience. Ben and I will definitely go back next year, most likely as volunteers and members of Los Amigos. I’m already looking forward to it!

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FRIDA FROM MEXICO

Frida Kahlo is an icon here in Mexico. You cannot visit any town or city without seeing her image somewhere. I’ve read her biography (there are dozens of books about her, including one for kids), watched the movie with Salma Hayek 3 times, and seen a comprehensive show of her work in Rome, Italy. She is definitely a hero of mine. What was so special about her? And what would she think of being an icon in the twenty-first century?

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Magdalena Carmen Frida Kahlo y Calderón was born in Coyoacán central México in 1907 to a German/Hungarian father and a Spanish/Native American mother. She suffered with polio as a young child, exacerbated in her teenage years by a trolley accident on her way home from pre-med school which left her with lifelong injuries. She endured numerous surgeries and taught herself to paint during her recovery periods. After recovering she joined the Communist party and encountered Diego Rivera, whom she’d met earlier when he was painting a mural in her prep school auditorium.

It was Diego, an accomplished muralist, who realized Frida’s talent and encouraged her to continue painting. They married in 1929. Soon after she adopted the indigenous Tehuana dress that became her signature look: flowered headdress, chunky jewelry, and colorful, loose blouses combined with long ruffled skirts. In her earlier days at home, Frida played with her identity, appearing once in a family photo in a man’s suit with slicked back hair.

After traveling in the US with Diego, 2 miscarriages and the death of her mother turned Frida to a less traditional style of painting. Some called her a surrealist, but Diego said that she painted from her heart. Her life of pain, both physical and emotional, became apparent.

(Thanks to Sol Mexicano gallery)

In 1933 the couple returned from the US to Mexico City to separate studios/homes joined by a “catwalk”. As Communists and political activists they hosted many famous figures from the art and political worlds. During this time Frida painted prolifically with encouragement from well-known artists, exhibiting her work in Paris and New York, and establishing herself as a feminine force in a patriarchal world.

Found in a San Miguel restaurant

By 1939 Diego and Frida had divorced after a tumultuous 10 years, both having had numerous affairs. In 1940, however, they reconciled and moved into her family home in Mexico City. During their time there her health begin to decline and she turned to alcohol and drugs for relief. She continued to paint numerous self-portraits even while once again enduring countless hospitalizations and surgeries.

Another restaurant find

In 1953 Frida attended her first solo show in Mexico lying in a bed, the only way she could be there. She died in her home in 1954, reportedly due to a pulmonary embolism.

Thanks to Onja & the NC Museum of Art, Raleigh

Frida’s family home, CASA AZUL (Blue House), in México City, is a much loved museum today, and a testimony to the love and respect Frida and Diego had for the indigenous peoples of Mexico. Before his death Diego requested that his bathroom and Frida’s not be touched for a period of 15 years. Only recently have these rooms been opened, treasures found and catalogued. (See SELF PORTRAIT IN A VELVET DRESS.)

At Hacienda del Lago in Ajijic my friend Diane and I met Priscila Aloneida, a 27 year old artist trained in Guadalajara. When I asked – so you like Frida? – her face lit up. (About Rivera, not so much. “He was a communist.”) “For us she is a hero, for women and artists of Mexico.” She wouldn’t like all the commercialism, do you think? “She wouldn’t mind. She changed everything for us.” Priscila is a delightful young Mexican woman, full of enthusiasm, talent, and wisdom not always encountered in one so young. She currently travels the world painting murals wherever she is asked to go. How does your mother feel about that? I asked. “When I called in the beginning to tell her I wanted to go to Morocco, she said no. There were many phone calls. Then one day I said – Mama, I want to go to Morocco. And finally she said – So go!” And she’s been going ever since. I hope her mother is proud. Frida would be.

MARGARET & MAZAMITLA

We were so happy to welcome my dearest friend of 20+ years to our home last week. She came a long way – from St. Thomas, Virgin Islands – to visit us and see our new home. It felt so good to pick up right where we left off when we saw each other 2 years ago. We did our best to show her the routine things and some of the highlights of our life here in Mexico. Friends, markets, the Malecón, Chapala, restaurants, and an overnight visit to Mazamitla. So come along as I recap our visit.

After resting up from a 3-legged flight with numerous delays, we took Margaret to the Wednesday tianguis (market) then met friends at Go Bistro! for dinner. Lovely place with nice atmosphere and yummy food.

Next day we were off to show her Chapala, our nearby town of about 35-40,000 residents, with a strong Mexican flavor and a beautiful malecón. A weekend destination for Guadalajarans, Chapala was once a short term home for Tennessee Williams while writing A Streetcar Named Desire. Recent rains brought in fields of lyria, land-locking small fishing boats for weeks. The market in Chapala is open daily, stocked with meat, vegetables, cheese, candies, fruit, etc. as well as several outdoor eateries, a great spot for authentic food and people watching.

In an effort to find another source of authentic Mexican food – Ajijic more often caters to gringo tastes – we found our way to Viva México Restaurante, where the food and service are always top notch. A new place opened in Ajijic recently and we found it pretty tasty! El Sombrero, former furniture display room, with an owner from the Yucatan, now serving to please!

Driving toward Mazamitla we traveled past the berry growing town of Jocotepec on the west end of Lake Chapala, with beautiful views of the mountains and lake. Once we arrived at our destination we quickly figured out that the “sleepy mountain town” isn’t so sleepy on Sundays. But we enjoyed our little cabins and walks to town, nonetheless, especially on Monday when the crowds had cleared.

Mazamitla (Nahuatl for “place where deer are hunted with arrows”) is a mountain town in the state of Michoacán, established in 1165 by the Aztecs. The evergreen and deciduous forests contribute to its architecture which includes wooden beams, doorways, stair rails, and balconies, atypical for México. This “get away” town is mostly known for its unusual cathedral, built around the mid-20th century and believed to have been influenced by Chinese architecture. The sanctuary was packed when we visited on Sunday so we didn’t go inside but outside by the entrance I found a heart-shaped container for depositing bottle caps for charities.

Wandering through el Centro there was much to see. Street vendors and the town market caught our attention most. Colors, colors, everywhere, inside and out. Neat and orderly store shelves packed with kitchen items, candy, garden supplies, you name it. And food, always food. La Troje Restaurante is highly rated for its food and service. It’s a busy place where the walls are covered with pictures of movie stars. It’s popular with visiting Mexicans and gringos alike.

Heading home on a gorgeous Monday. We saw this little village on our way up the mountain and decided to check it out on the way back. “The apple of peace” is a sweet and friendly little village, mostly quiet with few people milling about. We’ll go back sometime and stick around a bit.

A sweet ride home. Beautiful scenery with little traffic. The clouds lie on the mountaintops nearly every day, in incredible formations. We’ve craved quiet lately with construction going on on 3 sides. We’re searching for our next dwelling. For a few minutes I thought I saw it…here on the other side of the lake, with only the sound of a gentle breeze.

It was hard to tell Margaret good-bye, we so rarely see each other. It’s been 2 years and Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever was rearing its ugly head last time we were together, unbeknownst to me (until after she left). Two friends, close as sisters, bumping into each other every year or two, picking up where we left off each time. We both chose life “outside the box”, in far away places. Neither of us content with the status quo. We’ve both experienced a lot, learned a lot. And I hope it will always be that way, picking up the threads each time we meet. Adios, mi hermana! Hasta luego! Thank you for coming.

CELEBRATION!

Independencia…70th birthday (Ben’s)…family and friends…September was time to celebrate!

Every year in September Mexico celebrates its independence from Spanish rule. A long weekend is filled with festivals, parades, contests, dancing, special food, and “El Grito”, the battle cry for independence. Raised in 1810 by Miguel Hidalgo, the battle cry stirred the citizens to fight for freedom in a war that lasted over eleven years. All over Mexico the recitation of Hidalgo’s speech occurs at the same time on Independence Day Eve (September 15th): delegados, mayors and even the country’s president recite the famous battle cry known as “El Grito”. Crowds of Mexicans gather in plazas around the country to hear the famous words. Es muy importante para Méxicanos!

Ben celebrated his 70th birthday for days it seemed. But the highlight was a party of fifty guests held in the home of our friend Judy Miller, who’s sister Carla was celebrating her birthday as well. We’re still a bit amazed at the number of people we’ve connected with already. And we loved it that Ben’s sister Melanie and her husband joined us from Oregon. A good time was had by all!

And the fun continued! Beautiful weather. Great for exploring the town of Chapala.

And in the midst of it all – Global Climate Strike. A “celebration” of sorts as young and old step forward to raise awareness and demand action on the state of our world. I had reached out looking for folks interested but got very little response. With company coming and a party to organize I just didn’t have time to make something happen. But two days before the Strike an email arrived from Democrats Abroad announcing a gathering of support on the day after the international Strike. I was only able to go for thirty minutes before the party but it was wonderful to be part of the small crowd that stood on the street (Carretera) with signs as passersby waved and honked their allegiance. It was exhilarating!

We’re moving into October now. The temperatures are lovely – apologies to those of you suffering in North Carolina. The vibrant green of the mountains is losing a bit of its luster though small trees provide patches of fragrant yellow flowers dot the hillside. We are grateful.

We’ve been here ten months now. The building going on around our rental house is increasing along with the accompanying noise of hammers and saws. We’re contemplating our next move. Feeling a bit steadier on our feet, speaking a bit more Spanish, it is nearly time to find another home. The thought of moving is “unsettling” but not nearly as daunting as ten months ago. Life is good here. Not perfect. But good. We’ll see what’s next. Meanwhile, VIVA MÉXICO!

GLOBAL #CLIMATE STRIKE!

16 year old Greta Thunberg landed in the US recently after crossing the ocean from Sweden in a zero emissions boat, avoiding the oversized carbon footprint of long distance flying. It must have been a true assault on her senses to go from the sounds of the ocean to the chaos of New York City. “What is the difference in thinking about climate change here and in Sweden?” interviewer Trevor Noah asked her. “Here (in the US) people think ‘ I believe it’ or ‘ I don’t know if I believe it’. In my country we know it is true.”

“Why do you think it’s such an issue for younger people?” “Some older people say ‘I’ll be gone anyway so screw it’, but it’s our future.”

According to Greta – and don’t doubt that she has her facts straight – 200 species go extinct EVERY DAY…EVERY DAY. And we have only 8 1/2 years to turn things around. Some say it is already too late.

Noah to Greta: What is the ONE thing you would have people do? Greta: EDUCATE THEMSELVES.

I am hopeful that the articles and links below will help inform you:

https://www.lifeworth.com/deepadaptation.pdf


https://truthout.org/articles/in-the-face-of-climate-collapse-we-need-the-wisdom-of-elders/

On September 20th and 27th (bracketing the UN Action Climate Summit) teachers, students, and employees will walk out (or call out) of class or work to stand with the GLOBAL CLIMATE STRIKE (https://globalclimatestrike.net/) and FRIDAYS FOR FUTURE (https://www.fridaysforfuture.org/). Adults are being asked to stand with the strikers, forcing the issue that “business as usual” will no longer solve our problems. At this point the future of the upcoming generations is in the hands of the world’s political leaders. We MUST get their attention.

On September 21st people all over the world will come together for World Cleanup Day (https://www.worldcleanupday.org/). My day was planned before I knew about this event so here’s what I’ve decided to do: I will email and message family and friends (ahead of time) asking everyone to spend TWO hours that morning cleaning up their streets, parks, creeks, rivers, etc. as a show of faith for the Global Climate Strike and Mother Earth. JOIN ME. GATHER YOUR FRIENDS AND LOVE YOUR MOTHER!

There is much to be said. But I leave you with the above for now. Stay tuned!

PÁTZCUARO – AHH!

The town of Pátzcuaro (pats-kwaro) lies about three and a half hours from Ajijic, a gorgeous drive on an excellent tolled highway. Part of the thrill for me was going into geography that looks very much like the mountains of North Carolina where I was born and spent many years, though twice as high at 7200′. The colonial town of Pátzcuaro (or PTZ) was established around 1320 and has become a mecca for tourists and craft collectors. The indigenous people and crafts of the area give it a special old town feel. Lago (Lake) de Pátzcuaro is within sight and surrounded by small villages well known for various Mexican crafts. With the Spanish Conquest came “Tata Vasco” (Father Vasco) who assured that each village specialized in a specific craft, removing the element of competition and at the same time offering them a livelihood. After checking into Victoria Ryan’s beautiful B & B Hotel Casa Encantada, we were privileged to spend 3 delightful days with tour guide Jaime Hérnandez of Patzcuaro Magic Tours as he gave us a broad sampling of a few lakeside villages. Let me introduce you:

Lake Pátzcuaro

So much to tell. Our first morning there we ventured into town, just a block or so away, and strolled through the 3 town plazas centered around churches. The main plaza is one of the largest in Mexico, providing a place for lovers, musicians, demonstrators, dancers, students, and anyone else interested in being out and about. Restaurants and craft stores, strollers, and performers abound.

Friday afternoon. Visited the wonderful cultural museum where the guide spoke very little English but was patient with my Spanish. One of my favorite rooms was filled with indigenous clothing, some of which we saw in the streets. Afterward, time to eat. La cena. We went to a restaurant we’d seen earlier but the door was closed, though not bolted. I stepped over and said “Hola” to the gentleman in the window. He excused himself from his meeting (oops!) and invited us inside. Turned out they were filming a TV show of famous regional cook Victoria Gonzalez Chavez and we were the only customers. Seated in a narrow central room we had a birdseye view of the filming while enjoying THE best Mexican food I’ve ever had. The manager, Eloy, was most gracious, as was his staff, who waited on us patiently as we did our best to interpret the Spanish menu. Señor Eloy rushed into the room to check on us while the TV crew rearranged for the next set. Luckily one of the crew spoke English and informed us that the manager was apologizing for leaving us “isolated” and hoped we enjoyed our meal. We went back a few days later hoping to thank him but ended up leaving a card instead. What a fun adventure!

Now, let’s go see the artisans! First on the docket, Santa Clara del Cobre.

Kids being filmed, copper museum, and carnitas on the street!

Cuanojo – Though famous for brightly painted furniture, the latest version of which includes characters from the movie COCO, we went to visit Jaime’s “secret treasure”, Nati. Nati’s small concrete block house with outdoor kitchen is at the end of a small dirt foot trail, surrounded by cornfields. Her award winning belts are created on her backstrap loom AFTER she hoes the corn and makes her tortilla dough for the day. Nati is “disabled” by a clubfoot and must always use crutches, but her smile is a mile wide as she welcomes us into her home. I walk away with one of her prize belts, adorned with complex prehispanic symbols, patterns Nati carries in her head and teaches her family with cardboard, string, and sticks.

Tupataro – Home of a 18th century church filled with history and legends, brought to life by our guide Jaime. An effort to preserve the amazing church dictates only one photo per visitor. The ceiling decoration began in 1725 and was used as a “brochure” for educating the indigenous population and winning them to Christianity.

Quiroga – Named after the Catholic “bishop” Vasco Vázquez de Quiroga who fought for fair treatment of the indigenous populations after the Conquest. We visited a family who creates candelabras and incense holders for local churches.

Santa Fe de la Laguna – Home of Nicolás Fabián and Rosario Fermín, internationally known potters. And two of the kindest people I’ve ever met. Rosario is a revered cook and her cocina shows it. She’s been invited to Ajijic to cook at a celebration in December. Hoping to see her!

Also home of the first “Pueblo Hospital”, a gathering place for indigenous residents, founded in 1533 by “Tata” Vasco Quiroga and run by a council of elder men. At a ceremony each Friday a newly wed couple is chosen to clean the church and replace the flowers for the week. Outside the women gather in celebration, cooking for the entire week, though not this week. And one more secret treasure – this Santa Fe is home of the people who inspired the characters for COCO.

Tzintzuntzan – Home of the hummingbirds. Here we visited the award winning potters Luis Manuel Morales Gamez, who has shifted to more modern designs, then Guadalupe García Rios, who creates her own line of ceramics with her daughters (and grandchildren). We came away with only small items as prices run high here.

Around the lake then to a women’s embroidery cooperative run by Teófila and Bertha Servín. I’d been looking for “storytelling” embroidery and found it here in abundance. Exquisite work.

Tocuaro – Home of Felipe Horta, master mask maker. Avocado and copal wood are used for the masks as they are abundant, lightweight, and easy to work with. December brings a special event where the “3 wise men” travel from home to home to visit baby Jesus in the family creche. But, wait! Who’s that masked man getting in the way??? It’s the Devil, who wants no part of Jesus worshiping!

“Jimmy” Horta’s studio was our next stop. Ear to ear smile while he showed us the technique he invented for carving reeds into figures. Delightful!

Uneamich is a furniture factory that used to employ 300 locals. It now has 60 employees. The painted furniture and accessories there are beautifully done and can be custom ordered. Painters Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera once visited this town. Even now, the streets bustle.

Jacucuaro – This town was an island until the 1970’s when a dam was built connecting it to nearby villages. Reeds are abundant along the water’s edge and are collected for use in other towns. But here the hat-makers use palm fibers grown in hotter areas of Michoacán. Many are employed here, young and old alike, to split, braid, bundle, and transport the palms for hat-making. The smaller the braid, the finer the hat. If you want to show off at a celebration, you buy the best. $20-$30. Erasmo Bautista is doing well. He has a new studio and nicer home than most of the artisans we visited.

Back in Pátzcuaro the markets bustle. So much to see and smell. Funny, a local warned us not to eat the street food there. After sharing his reasons I was glad I hadn’t been tempted!

Notes of interest along the way…

We leave today and I resist! I love having my breakfast served and my room cleaned every day leaving me free to walk through the gorgeous lower patio, through the gate, and out into the streets seeking adventure. This place, the large nearby green fields, the beautiful mountains, the lake, hold me gently. Nurture me. It took me years to feel at home in Hillsborough. Yet every place we visit in Mexico calls my name on some level. I wonder where it will take me next.

I leave you with this…on a Sunday morning walk I spied an elderly woman exiting her door to take a seat on her stoop. Addressing her and asking permission, I reversed my camera orientation and showed her her picture. As she giggled I snapped two shots then showed them to her. “Oh, Señora, Señora!” she said with laughter as she covered her face. I wonder how long it had been since she’d seen her own image.

Ahh…Pátzcuaro!

CONNECT THE DOTS

As I continue to read the work of Joanna Macy and Jem Bendell and continue to consider the state of our Earth and our global society, it comes to me that this move to Mexico has had a bigger purpose than I imagined in the beginning. I now believe that I am here to learn about community (see my post COMUNIDAD from early July) and its broader meaning. Here in Mexico, where family is so very important and everyone comes together for the good of all. Now my task is to create community for myself from a sea of strangers.

In searching the internet for ideas about what community means, I came across a post called “Community is Everything: How to Build Your Tribe” in Inc. This Morning newsletter. Miki Agrawal gives her ideas about creating her “tribe”. She’s hand-picked her members of “inspiring friends” who “challenge me to be the best version of myself and support me through the great and the not-so-great.” Here’s her list of how to nurture your group: “Express happiness when you see your people…Let everyone share stories and participate…Forget the small talk (dig in)…Give credit as often as you can…Instill confidence — it’s free…Challenge your people to push themselves…Connect people!” I love her ending statements: “Don’t make friends just to make friends. Build the right community…(It) is so much more about what you put in than what you get out.” This young person has great wisdom already. I think of these words as I meet and interact with people. Perhaps because of my age I am “pickier” as well. No time for small talk. Now the climate issue — the Great Turning — has become an important conversation for me. And there is much to say. Many of you know how terribly serious I can be. I’m counting on my new community to help me see how much fun there is to be had! (Like the concert by Celia Farran that I attended with my Spiritual Friends tribe yesterday. Her songs are connecting and soulful.)

Coffee shops and markets, fiestas and concerts. Hiking, traveling, classes. Walking around the village. All places to find folks to connect with. People are anxious to connect here, anxious to tell their stories. Just by moving here we often have a great deal in common.

We found this house in the country at the last minute a year ago. Luckily we landed in the midst of a mixed community that looks out for each other. My growing Spanish allows me to interact with the Mexican families on a casual level. The neighbors behind us are gringo & Mexican, bilingual, and often helpful in figuring out the politics and protocols of the Mexican world. I understand there are some gringos here who hide away and see the local culture only as servants. But most are here to be involved in and learn about the culture I believe. Hopefully we can learn from each other.

Here in Ajijic I have the opportunity to create the “right community”. But I am also realizing that my community does not have to be just here. It includes friends (and family) from everywhere I’ve lived previously, as well as those I’ve yet to meet. In fact, new friends are arriving here from North Carolina in October and January. We’ve met, shared some good times, connected by email and Facebook, and look forward to getting to know each other. From St. Thomas, Virgin Islands to Sweden, from Ohio, Florida and Oregon, from North Carolina, my home state, and from Oaxaca and Teotitlan del Valle to Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico, we are all community. We are all family, by birth, choice or circumstance. We are all in this together. We are all One. Connecting the dots.